What a rotten sleep I had last night but it was totally self inflicted!
The moral of this story is donāt take your phone when you get up to the loo at midnightā¦. Ok I used it for the torch but donāt look the phone and start clearing emails. š«£š
I may have mentioned my blogger friend, The Windsor Waffle a few times. Sheās been taking a break from blogging and there was one sitting in my email at midnight, so of course, I had to read it. Sheās backā¦.
It was called Bye, Bye Blog
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I had to keep reading.
She has decided that the time has come for the end of The Windsor Waffle.
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For all of the right reasons (not that there would be any āwrong reasonsā for making a decision to stop doing something that you donāt want to do anymore!)ā¦. Butā¦. I felt a sadness like I would never have expected.
Iāve missed her blog these last few months and this one ended with āThe End Xxā
I was almost in tears as it kind of took my breath away.
Yes I know Iām prone to overreaction at times but Iām still sharing it as it is.
I literally lay all night thinking about it. Tossing and turning.
Wondering if a time will come when I no longer want to write The Rambling Sloth⦠what would that feel like?! How could that happen?!? My mind went haywireā¦.
So I want the lovely Windsor Waffle to know that I will really miss her blog, as I have these last few months. I really value her support.
The other lesson here is to show that you may not always know the effect you have on other people. You can become a part of someoneās life through and you might never know it.
I love the kind of people that blogging seems to attract.
Needless to say I slept till 8.30am so did get some sleep!!
I headed straight back to Braehead Shopping Centre this morning as I had some clothes to take back.
I was also determined to get a top to go with my long purple skirt and gazelle trainersā¦. This is for Melanieās Thanksgiving dinner in Rome as the end of the month.
This was a mission and a half!

Now that Iām home I think Iām going to go with a top I have alreadyā¦. š«£š
I know the look I wanted⦠the casual top with the dressy bottom but I hate the big baggy T-shirt look as I think it makes my top half look bigger than it already is.
I bought the sparkly top which I may take back and the second last T-shirt⦠I already own the jacket. I also bought the long sleeved top but itās fleece, so may be too warm.
Whew, that was tiring writing about, reliving all that changing! š«£š
Craig and I sat down and had lunch together at the dining table. 3 meals together this weekendā¦. CHECK⦠US. š„°. Weāve not eaten together in so long.
Iāve tidied away washing, got 4 big bags for the charity shop, and started packing cases for Rome and Iceland.
I sat down and had a decaf coffee and a couple of biscuits to write this. I started in the sunshine and am now writing by the light of the stove.

Finality sharing Naneaās Sweatpants & Coffeeās wish for the week ahead.

Like so many other positive Fb pages, she had to negotiate the election fear vs elation this week and had to deal with the fallout on one of her posts. I saw so many positive pages get the same thingā¦. I love her āMay you refrain from lashing out onlineāā¦.
None of us need that.
If you disagree with anything⦠just move on. Donāt feel you have to add your tuppence worth to something you disagree with. Just scroll until you find something you do agree with.
Iām so glad the feed is back to positivity though.
Have a great week.
Stay safe everyone ā„ļøā„ļøā„ļø
DONāT PANIC!! Iām still here, just not waffling. It felt very final to me writing that last blog too. Sorry to give you a sleepless night. I also didnāt sleep that well fretting about the Court case paperwork I received yesterday after months/years of waiting. Itās finally happening. I canāt really explain more but itās the right thing but still super scary. After giving up The Waffle Iām also hoping to speak to my boss this week about reducing my working hours from the New Year .. fingers crossed! Now donāt you go getting any ideas about stopping Rambling.. but Iām still in huge awe of you writing every day. Thatās a level of blogging dedication most donāt have. Have a great week! Xx
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If itās the right thing then itās that feel the fear and do it anywayā¦. Just keep taking deep breaths and knowing that each step is a step closer to what you want. Also very well done on thinking about reducing your hours too.
I did message your blog at 5am š but I donāt think it posted properly. It was just such a shock as I love reading your blog so much. I donāt have time to read many as Iām too busy having to write mine but I loved catching up on your news so donāt be a stranger. Iām here to vent to anytime without even knowing whatās happening. Have a great week too!! Xx
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Thank you! Teds miss you already⦠will provide updates X
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Please do!! The scamps that they are šš xx
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